Reviews
[W]ritten with warmth, depth, and sensitivity... it will be a comfort to those some way down the road, helping them understand their sorrow and pain, and affirming their own individual way of grieving.
The bravery that Ann Finkbeiner must have had to write this book is incredible... By using her own and other parents' experiences, the author makes the issues speakable, and a sense of peace through connectedness with these parents is conveyed to the reader.
Find a copy... It will exhaust and replenish you.
Enriching. One is struck by the mysterious power of attachment and love in the parent-child bond.
Like mourning itself, this powerful book, much of it in the words of bereaved parents, evokes a series of reactions... It illustrates the hard fact [of human suffering] but also our resilience.
The first book to examine the long-term nature of parental grief through the tales of those who suffer it. Although the book includes most current grief research, its authorities are parents.
This book is just excellent. Ann Finkbeiner has found a way to investigate her own grief and perhaps find some resolution to this difficult task of grieving. Thousands of bereaved parents and professionals will benefit from her work.
The book is beautifully written and deeply felt... It can be of value for bereaved parents who can by helped by it to understand their pain and sorrow and to understand the different ways fathers and mothers grieve. It should be required reading for professionals who would help bereaved parents and who would understand how deeply invested are parents in their children.
By focusing on the long-term impact of losing a child, Ann Finkbeiner has raised issues and concerns that are rarely addressed. Her book is thought-provoking, deeply moving, and filled with insight and hope. I recommend it enthusiastically to parents and professionals.
Book Details
Introduction
Chapter 1. At First
Chapter 2. Marge Ford's Marriage
Chapter 3. Fathers and Mothers, Husbands and Wives: Changes in the Marriage
Chapter 4. Brandt Jones's Family
Chapter 5. Brothers and
Introduction
Chapter 1. At First
Chapter 2. Marge Ford's Marriage
Chapter 3. Fathers and Mothers, Husbands and Wives: Changes in the Marriage
Chapter 4. Brandt Jones's Family
Chapter 5. Brothers and Sisters, Sons and Daughters: Changes in the Relationship with Other Children
Chapter 6. Leight Johnson and His Fellow Man
Chapter 7. Janet Wright's Bad Friends
Chapter 8. Changes Toward Other People
Chapter 9. Chris Reed
Chapter 10. On Guilt
Chapter 11. Delores Shoda and the Uncertainty of Life
Chapter 12. Job's Children: Changes Toward God
Chapter 13. Diana Moores' World
Chapter 14. The Zero Point: Changes in Perspective
Chapter 15. Anne Perkins' Priorities
Chapter 16. Surface Ditties and Carpe Diem: Changes in Priorities
Chapter 17. Walter Levin
Chapter 18. The Nature of the Bond
Chapter 19. One Person Now: The Continuining Trajectory
Suggestions for Further Reading