Reviews
Mental illness is a family thing! All too often we fail to recognize the impact it has on family members. Not anymore! In this groundbreaking, thoughtful, and compassionate book, the authors do a masterful job in detailing the impact mental illness has on the family and offering concrete steps family members can immediately implement.
This is the essential guide for family members of those with mental illness or trauma...reading it is like sitting in the warm and comforting office of Dr. Michelle Sherman, one of the nation's most trailblazing researchers and therapists in the area of family members of those with mental illness.
Eminently practical, deeply empathic, and filled with vivid examples, this book emphasizes self-compassion, clear steps, and evidence-based approaches to caring for a loved one experiencing mental disorder or trauma. A 'go-to' for core information on overcoming stigma, finding providers, achieving balance, and walking that fine line between involvement vs. overinvolvement. Five stars!
This is a remarkable volume. The words jump off the page and generate thoughts and ideas and emotions that are informative and healing. It is clear, concise and actionable. As a family member and clinician, I resonate with the factual material presented and with the questions it asks us to ask ourselves.
A remarkable book that I wish I'd been able to read when our son was first diagnosed. Intensely readable, it arms family members and friends with essential practical information. Best of all, it gives families like mine hope and strength by offering ways to cope on our lifelong and difficult journey.
All kinds of sports have a playbook—it's time for families to be offered a playbook for mental health, especially when loving someone struggling with mental illness/trauma. The strategies in this book are uncomplicated and supportive, and highlighted with examples designed for families to know that they are not alone in their journey.
The Sherman mother/daughter author team has created an inspirational, interactive book that provides timely, professional, and practical guidance. It is filled with 'step by step' techniques and 'I can use this today' information and skills. Highly recommend.
Reading this book feels like a very caring friend is talking to us—one who understands our struggles and has the know-how to guide us through our challenges. Grounded in science, but very readable and jam-packed with practical advice and skills that can provide comfort and strength. The examples are so relatable it's as if the authors interviewed you as they wrote this book.
Every person with a family member managing mental illness should read this book; it will change the way you love and live with them. This interactive book provides digestible chunks of education and important insights that are desperately needed by families as well as much-needed skills, hope, strength, and compassion.
Drawing from their extensive clinical and lived experiences, the Shermans have written an insightful and accessible guide. It's loaded with suggestions for managing stress, communicating with your loved one, empowering them in accessing the mental health system, and taking care of oneself. An important sourcebook for family members.
Book Details
Welcome
Guide to Using this Book
Snapshot of Your Story
Part One: Reflecting on Your Experience
1. Your Emotional Journey
2. Your Coping Tools
3. Your Support Network
4. Stigma and Discrimination
5. Naming
Welcome
Guide to Using this Book
Snapshot of Your Story
Part One: Reflecting on Your Experience
1. Your Emotional Journey
2. Your Coping Tools
3. Your Support Network
4. Stigma and Discrimination
5. Naming Losses and Moving Toward Acceptance
Part Two: Supporting Your Loved One
6. Empowering Your Loved One in Living Their Best Life
7. Navigating the Health Care System
Part Three: Strengthening Your Relationship with Your Loved One
8. Strengthening Your Connection
9. Communication
10. Limit Setting
11. Intimate Relationships
12. Parenting with a Partner Who Has a Mental Illness or Has Experienced Trauma
Part Four: Managing Common Challenges
13. When Your Loved One Doesn't Acknowledge the Illness or Declines Help
14. Addictive Behaviors Including Alcohol and Drug Use
15. Possible Impacts of Trauma (Including Post traumatic Stress Disorder or PTSD)
16. Mental Health Crises
Wrap Up
Acknowledgments
Appendices
Resource List
Notes
Index
About the Authors